Well I ended up taking an unexpected trip to Detroit. DBF got upset with me and had called me from work tues night and told me to pack my stuff and get out before he got home from work. I did it and he was so suprised I left. He didnt think I would. We had a long talk on thursday and I decided I would come back. I stayed for a few days to try and take care of house stuff in Detroit. I could not get into my house unfortunately as a lock box had been put on it. I think the ex quit making the payments! I am calling the mortgage company tomorrow to find out what is going on. I'm really bummed I couldnt get the rest of my stuff while I was there. Well if there is anything there. I have a feeling my ex has taken alot of it. The break back to Detroit was great though. DBF and I both seem happier. My being gone made him realize how much I do for him and how much he loves me. He is a show his love by doing things, not a tell you. I love all the things he has done for me but it is nice to hear the words every now and again too. I think he understands that now. I got to see my friend Marcy...I stayed with her while I was there and I got to see my dad. I have not seen either of them in 1 1/2 yrs.